The Black & White

America: stop stereotyping Asian men

Graphic+by+Selina+Ding.
Graphic by Selina Ding.

Graphic by Selina Ding.

Graphic by Selina Ding.

By Hirari Sato

Hang on for a minute...we're trying to find some more stories you might like.


Email This Story






Everyone in my family was surprised when my brother introduced us to his white girlfriend. Family members jokingly asked him if his girlfriend thought he was attractive despite the fact that he’s Asian. They adore her and think she’s beautiful, but somehow, her race always slips into the conversation.

These jokes weren’t intended to hurt my brother, but they do show that stereotyping Asian men as unattractive is deeply ingrained our culture. Somehow, it’s funny and surprising when an Asian man dates a white woman––it’s strange that someone would find an Asian man attractive.

In 2002, Steve Harvey joked that pages of the book How to Date White Woman: A Practical Guide to Asian Men would be empty because no one would date them to begin with. The fact that celebrities make these kinds of jokes only perpetuate the stereotype that all Asian men are unattractive and undesirable.

In Hollywood, Asian men are often portrayed as nerds, socially awkward and unable to talk to girls. This archetype contributes to the stereotype that Asian men aren’t “masculine enough” or that they’re “unattractive”––which transfers over to affect Asian men’s actual dating life. A 2014 study by OKCupid found that Asian men had the least amount of interracial matches compared to other races and were seen as “least attractive” as well.

Prejudice against Asian men isn’t limited to TV. Magazines often create an image of what an “ideal” person should look like, and they continuously exclude Asian men from these issues. A 2015 study by the College of William and Mary found that of magazines where Asian Americans were represented, only 21 percent included Asian men. It would seem Asian men “don’t have the right look” for what others consider to be attractive.

We’ve made a lot of progress in the representation of different minorities, but we still have a long ways to go in the representation of Asian American men. There isn’t a specific feature, height or skin color that people should need to be considered attractive, and we shouldn’t tolerate the degradation and emasculation of an entire race.

About the Writer
Leave a Comment

In order to make the Black & White online a safe and secure public forum for members of the community to express their opinions, we read all comments before publishing them. No comments with obscenities, personal attacks, advertisements, nonsense, defamatory or derogatory rhetoric, libel or slander will be published. Comments are meant to spur discussion about the content and/or topic of an article. Please use your real name when commenting.

If you want a picture to show with your comment, go get a gravatar.